Life can feel a lot!

You can easily get bogged down in it all!

It's no fun feeling like you’re drowning in the juggle of Mum life.

Not being able to get on top of all you need and want to for you and your family leaves you feeling anxious and overwhelmed because there’s not enough of you to go around. You don’t have enough time to be present with your family, keep the house as you wish and hold down a job too. 

You’re spending your days desperately trying to “do it all” so you feel you’re a good Mum but it’s actually leaving you feeling drained and hopeless.

So despite you wanting to show up as a great mum, you’re finding yourself far too busy to be present in the ways you’d dreamed of and are often grumpy, impatient & unable to enjoy being the Mum you want to be.

You know you’re missing out on enjoying family life and you don’t want to waste another minute!

I’m here to help you go from not feeling good enough to feeling “Confidently You”. To audit your life, take control of the busy, create your dream life with more fun, freedom and flow.

Are you ready for me to help you build unshakeable confidence, rediscover yourself, feel alive and thrive in your everyday life?

6 Steps to Master your Mojo

Life can feel overwhelming and all too

much. Let me help you enjoy it more!

I know how it feels when life gets too much! To feel so bogged down by all the responsibilities you have that it's hard to see or feel the joy!​

But I was determined not to go through life feeling sad, grumpy and resentful. I'd always been into psychology and self development. So I decided to become a life coach and I'm so glad I did.

​It opened up a whole new way of seeing the world and myself and it's such a passion and a privilege to share my knowledge with other women so they can find their own way to enjoy life more and to feel as happy, fulfilled and successful as I do now!

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Feel more alive enjoying more fun, freedom, flow and fulfilment in your everyday life being the Mum and woman you want to be

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Go after what you want in life enjoying more fun, freedom & flow so you can

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Reclaiming YOU post Holidays - Rebecca Hogan

Still in PJs at 11:30? You're Not Lazy - You're Reclaiming You

August 22, 20253 min read

Still in my PJs at 11:30am.

Not because I’m lazy.
Because I’ve spent the last 48 hours catching up with a life that doesn’t stop - and I’ve finally paused.

Not stopped, not slacked. Paused.

Since getting back from a beautiful, fun trip to Ireland - cousins, beaches, cliff tops, playgrounds, memory lane walks to where my husband grew up, including the spot where we got engaged - I’ve been doing the things that matter to me.

  • Back to school shopping and baking days with my girl

  • Dinner with friends

  • Writing my Weekend Wonders for all the brilliant mums on my list

  • Re-reading and refining my book before handing it over to my editor (deep breath - it’s happening!)

  • Planning for September clients - online and in person

  • Booking networking, scheduling joy, prepping for what’s next

That’s not lazy.
That’s a woman choosing what
matters - and finally remembering to include herself in that list.

But after all that momentum? I was wrecked.
So was my husband.

Add some late-night back-to-school anxiety from our daughter… and here we are. 11:30am. PJs. Pancakes. Laundry. Phone calls. Life.

And instead of pushing through for the sake of appearances,
I thought about what I’d achieved just two days post-holiday - and I chose to pause.

I also chose this:

  • Tidy the house

  • Set clearer boundaries

  • Ask for help instead of waiting for people to notice

  • Remind everyone where the bin and dishwasher are

  • Book myself time solo and time with my girls

  • Say no to anything that feels heavy or extractive

  • Let people do what they can for themselves

No more galley girl energy.
No more martyr mum.

No more being the one who notices and fixes and reminds and picks up after everyone - and then wonders why I feel unseen.

I’m getting ready for September, but not in the way society told me to.
Not with perfect school shoes or freshly ironed uniforms.
Not with endless emotional labour or pretending I’m fine when I’m not.

I’m doing it by:

  • Planning things to look forward to (hello, big birthday month!)

  • Choosing rest before I hit burnout

  • Saying no to pressure, and yes to presence

  • Reclaiming time and energy so I can be a woman who loves her life — not just manages it

So no, I’m not lazy.
And neither are you.

Next time you find yourself judging your PJ morning, your undone to-do list, your skipped bake sale...
Stop.

Ask yourself:

  • What have I carried this week?

  • What have I done, even if no one saw it?

  • What would change if I stopped waiting to be given permission to rest?

Because here’s the truth:
You’ve done more this week than some people will ever notice.
And if you’re tired, there’s a reason.

You weren’t made to do it all.
You were made to feel whole inside the life you
already have.

And if you’re craving softness, energy, clarity, or just one damn morning where no one says “Mum” on repeat - come join me.

🌀 Get Your Life Back — But Better
A 5-Day September Reset for Mums
Starts 15th September | Early Bird: £27 until 31st August

This isn’t hustle. It’s healing.
This isn’t performance. It’s perspective.

Let’s reset together.
Because your life is too precious to keep performing through it.

👉 Join us here

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Reclaiming YOU post Holidays - Rebecca Hogan

Still in PJs at 11:30? You're Not Lazy - You're Reclaiming You

August 22, 20253 min read

Still in my PJs at 11:30am.

Not because I’m lazy.
Because I’ve spent the last 48 hours catching up with a life that doesn’t stop - and I’ve finally paused.

Not stopped, not slacked. Paused.

Since getting back from a beautiful, fun trip to Ireland - cousins, beaches, cliff tops, playgrounds, memory lane walks to where my husband grew up, including the spot where we got engaged - I’ve been doing the things that matter to me.

  • Back to school shopping and baking days with my girl

  • Dinner with friends

  • Writing my Weekend Wonders for all the brilliant mums on my list

  • Re-reading and refining my book before handing it over to my editor (deep breath - it’s happening!)

  • Planning for September clients - online and in person

  • Booking networking, scheduling joy, prepping for what’s next

That’s not lazy.
That’s a woman choosing what
matters - and finally remembering to include herself in that list.

But after all that momentum? I was wrecked.
So was my husband.

Add some late-night back-to-school anxiety from our daughter… and here we are. 11:30am. PJs. Pancakes. Laundry. Phone calls. Life.

And instead of pushing through for the sake of appearances,
I thought about what I’d achieved just two days post-holiday - and I chose to pause.

I also chose this:

  • Tidy the house

  • Set clearer boundaries

  • Ask for help instead of waiting for people to notice

  • Remind everyone where the bin and dishwasher are

  • Book myself time solo and time with my girls

  • Say no to anything that feels heavy or extractive

  • Let people do what they can for themselves

No more galley girl energy.
No more martyr mum.

No more being the one who notices and fixes and reminds and picks up after everyone - and then wonders why I feel unseen.

I’m getting ready for September, but not in the way society told me to.
Not with perfect school shoes or freshly ironed uniforms.
Not with endless emotional labour or pretending I’m fine when I’m not.

I’m doing it by:

  • Planning things to look forward to (hello, big birthday month!)

  • Choosing rest before I hit burnout

  • Saying no to pressure, and yes to presence

  • Reclaiming time and energy so I can be a woman who loves her life — not just manages it

So no, I’m not lazy.
And neither are you.

Next time you find yourself judging your PJ morning, your undone to-do list, your skipped bake sale...
Stop.

Ask yourself:

  • What have I carried this week?

  • What have I done, even if no one saw it?

  • What would change if I stopped waiting to be given permission to rest?

Because here’s the truth:
You’ve done more this week than some people will ever notice.
And if you’re tired, there’s a reason.

You weren’t made to do it all.
You were made to feel whole inside the life you
already have.

And if you’re craving softness, energy, clarity, or just one damn morning where no one says “Mum” on repeat - come join me.

🌀 Get Your Life Back — But Better
A 5-Day September Reset for Mums
Starts 15th September | Early Bird: £27 until 31st August

This isn’t hustle. It’s healing.
This isn’t performance. It’s perspective.

Let’s reset together.
Because your life is too precious to keep performing through it.

👉 Join us here

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